It just so happened that this apex of an argument happened one day before Mike was going away on vacation for a week. We’d usually just text, and occasionally Snap random things to each other — but never anything substantial. I can’t even remember the last time he’d asked me to sleep over, let alone spend time together outside of the bedroom.
So, we had aired all of our grievances, and were left with some time apart to think about them. That was the way things used to be back when things were still cool between us.
Denial, guilt, sadness, rebound, remorse and turmoil abound before the great big move-on occurs. Perhaps you’ll both agree that things go no further.
After all, it’s been a couple of months at most – surely no heavy emotions have come into play yet? For some, however, the fling was just the first building brick of a great big romantic replica of the Palace of Versailles. Some people can’t help but fall in love with their fuck buddy – and there’s nothing worse than a one-sided ‘casual thing’.
Not only was the fuck buddy arrangement working, but we also took a mini-vacation together in the fall and that was wonderful.